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Clarity through Infinite Wisdom

Late yesterday I decided not to continue the blogging challenge.  The day had been one of exhaustion and a desire for all the crap in my world, the world to stop.  The cry so deep from within my soul to express itself in my complete truth felt stifled.  I had experienced the most amazing energy early this year … and yet as soon as I stepped into the business world again it was ripped apart by the density of that which is business.

It was hot so I went to the beach to read and enjoy the sea breeze, instead as I sat there this sadness began popping up.  Early this year as I said I went through an amazing heart healing in which I finally came out of denial and saw my ex-husband for what he was.  A man who lied to hide his dishonest behaviour.  For some bizarre reason I never acknowledged this.  I asked my best friend of 25 years had I ever mentioned that I thought he was having an affair.  No she said, never.  Even though I have had this amazing heart healing … there is more (our relationships give us the greatest opportunity to heal ourselves).  Layers of anger, hurt, disappointment etc had to surface as I realised this one event had robbed me of having a loving nurturing relationship in those 25 years because of the shame and guilt I felt after he placed the blame onto me for the marriage ending.

This unfoldment came about because someone close to me is having an affair with a married man.  She herself is single so there is not real issue there.  However, I could not let go of the lies this man was telling his wife to hide his dishonest behaviour.  It was sufficient to push my own experience to the surface for healing.

Then as I allowed the memories to bubble up … I began to remember all the other lies told by those in my family.  OMG it was rife and lies hurt.  They really hurt others so why on earth are we all so addicted to letting this go on.

We are on the precipice of an amazing opportunity to heal our hearts at such deep levels, but honestly the lies we tell ourselves need to stop.  I wonder what it is that we fear so much that these lies continue.  As I write I also gain clarity and so I asked myself the same question – What is it that I fear so much if I stop the lies to myself.  I hear

“You fear you will see the wonderous being that you are, your I am Source.  This scares you how powerful you are so you hide, you allow others to perpetrate the lies to hide their dishonest behaviour but at the same time you are doing the same thing.  You have been lying to yourself for so long.  You think you are Jan-Marie, the writer, the creator when in fact you have immense power to heal at such deep levels and you are denying this, you are denying others of this gift.  Stop lying, heal the pain, the rage at the disappointments that lies have given.

“Step out and if necessary over and BE proud to BE who you are.”

I sit here a bit stunned, and scared to be honest.  I know that my words come in a way that others hear the same words as the message is for them.  We really are being encouraged to stop the lies and step into our power.  The image I have chosen is how I feel right now.

I wonder what tomorrow will bring 🙂

Spiritual Divorce

Spiritual Divorce

2015 has brought forth some very interesting energy, amazing creative energy that has a brilliant vibrational frequency within it.  When you are sitting smack in the middle of this energy anything is possible.  It is an energy I have known would be available to us if we chose.  A new way of doing business, with Ease and Grace.  You couldn’t image how I have longed for this moment.  For me personally it has been 8 years in coming.

And yet as I came out of my cocoon of this amazing energy and once again join others it was like walking into a glass wall with a whammy.  Three times this has happened in a very short space of time.

During this time I was to experience an amazing heart healing.  I had been guided to see beyond my diffuser (sort of like rose-coloured glasses) and see my relationship with my ex-husband as it really was, not what I had thought it was.  From that came this amazing heart healing … and as I walked through this Emerald Doorway into the New Divine Heart Chakra (emerging) I awakened the colour in me and this explosion of energy came with it.

However, as it is in life, energy pulses and it wanes, it ebbs and it flows.  As I came out of my cocoon into the real world it dropped because I had not yet learned to stabilize it and maintain it.

The image on this post is Spiritual Divorce – Relationship completions.  It has been coming up a lot lately, not just for me but for others.  It appeared strongly for colleagues when I asked what was the ‘core wound’ to their hearts.  This morning it appeared again.  Yesterday I helped Nyree-Aine with her blog post on Spirituality so my first thought was hmmmm this is interesting – there is something we are hearing, yet not yet understanding.

Right now the planet Jupiter (money, expansion) is in a powerful position and a portal if you like has been opened for those who choose to leave the planet to do so with ease.  We are being asked to choose do we wish to continue with this journey of (spirituality) on this earth or leave.  I made my choice some time ago.

For almost as long as I have been fascinated by energy, emotions I have been fascinated by money.  I have watched with interest those who embarked on a spiritual journey of finding themselves, go into service to others with little or no financial return, stepping out into the market place and slavishly follow all the Business/Marking gurus models. Which never appealed to me.  I watched the increase of those offering transformational healing to people, to their businesses etc with no real understanding of the energy created.  I watched as yet again people peel away from me. as yet again. my vibration was changing.

This Transformation Accelerator, which is a part of the Second Level of the ‘Living Brilliantly’ program keeps wanting our attention.  My sense is following on with Nyre-Aine’s blog yesterday this is the next step.  Nyree-Aine has set up the ‘Unlearning Academy’ encouraging people to unlearn all that they have learned to get to the purity of what spirituality and life can be, if we allow it.

My journey has been around healing the heart. to allow this New ‘Divine Heart Chakra’ to emerge.  To unlearn we need to also heal our hearts and not at the superficial level we understand 🙂  this is deep – are you willing?  Has this life fulfilled you – or do you feel at some level that there is something so deep within your Soul that is calling you to acknowledge.  I certainly do.  25 years of deep transformational healing and I am still learning, understanding, healing.

What if there really was a fast-track process that could lead us to where the essence of Who we ARE … the Creative Force that I AM resides, would that interest you?  I know it would me.  I do sense that we are close if we allow it.

I am hearing  … you are opening yourself up to the highest level of heart healing there is, we are preparing you, Nyree-Aine and 10 others for this experience … and as this energy locks in so to shall the call go out for another 12 and another 12.

Are you being called?

Everything is Energy

Everything is Energy

As I said in a previous post I have been studying energy and its impact on our lives  for about 28 years.  In fact it fascinated me, it challenged me, it pushed me to grow, to heal and to understand even deeper layers of what energy was and the profound impact it has on every aspect of our lives.

Recently I have had a few people ask when was I going to teach what I know – this made me pause and think, what exactly would I teach.  I have specialized in emotional healing for about 25 years and to be honest I found quite a resistance from people … so many thought they knew everything … so many ran from feeling the deeper stuff and so it went on.  When I took the Living Brilliantly program to the US people were so busy telling me that they were so stressed … yet they were running out the door calling back.  I gotta go, I have so much to do, I have money to make OMG I am so stressed and overwhelmed by it all.  Dah, that is exactly what the Living Brilliantly program does, it releases emotional stress (which is energy) and brings you back to the present with both the left and right brain balanced so you are consciously aware, centred and balanced.

However, this post is about energy … everything is energy!  Which means if you really understand energy your master your success.  Yes I have said that before, however I am not entirely convinced that people really do understand the full impact of energy.

Our thoughts are energy, our emotions are energy, our communication is energy, money is energy – everything is energy.  Our relationships, and our businesses are hugely impacted by energy.  Rooms hold energy for about six months.  This means that if you have a teenage child, sitting in their room with thoughts of fighting with the world in general – all those thoughts/energy are in that room.  You can walk in feeling awesome and within seconds feel like crap.  Restaurants, workshop venues the list goes on.  Unless they are cleared regularly they have a whole truckload of little surprises waiting to wrap their arms around you 🙂

Therefore was is your relationship to energy?  Do you consider you know all about energy? Or do you think you do?  Does that sound arrogant of me to ask that question.  Maybe you think it is.  However, I have been researching this for over 28 years and I still walk into situations that blow me away and not in a good way.  This stuff ‘energy’ either makes the day or not.  I spend a lot of time in my own company, I am happy there, working away creating etc.  In many ways I am an introvert and yet I am an extrovert when out in company.  In my own space I am in my own energy … when I am out … I am exposed to everyone’s energy.  I therefore choose where and with whom I associate with.

That is until I forget and wander off down a pathway of a business luncheon or network meeting and find a whole different experience.  Over the years I have become adapt at adjusting so I am not flattened.  However, what I have found interesting of late is how much the energy has changed. Last year was challenging as I was subjected to a Vibrational roller than negatively impacted me on all levels, however by the end of the year I was more adjusted to this vibration.  Then this year it started again and I felt it intensely again.  Last year I attended network meetings and handled the energy quite well.  2015 was a huge energy shift, amazing vibrant energy and it changed energy on so many levels.

We are back in kindergarten energy wise with this profound shift in energy.  Why?  We have not yet stabilised our ability to hold this new energy which means when in our own company we can stabilize it … when surrounded by a whole range of energy vibrations not so much (yet).

When I go to a network meeting I am constantly in awe that so many people now are working in mindset change, transformational healing however, what I also observe  is that there is still a lack of understanding of how  the energy of their communication is impacting the room.  If a person is asking participants in a workshop, to do exercises in checking in with what they feel about money, their relationships, business etc – then the energy in the room is going to change.  Suddenly there is all this emotional energy floating around and unless the facilitator is educated about energy to see this … AND transforms the emotional energy in the room, immediately, then the energy begins to downgrade its vibrancy.

You can go into the room feeling awesome and come of the room feeling like crap and flattened.  Then spend the next three days bringing your energy vibration back up to what you normally operate with.

You are going to see and experience this more and more.  The more people awaken and go forth with their version of healing, energy etc then you will find this experience of these denser energies subtly creeping up on you and it begins with a headache, a stiff neck, a feeling of heaviness.  So what do you do?  Well if you can’t leave then you need to clear your own energy field as quickly as possible.  How I do that is create a vortex of energy from the base of my feet and quickly spiral it back up my body over my head and up to the Heart and Mind of the Universal Mind/God.  Then cocoon my energy in different colours and seal it.  You might like to do a Access Conscious release, or discreetly TAP or whatever process you have to clear what has come to the surface within you (from the combined energy in the room and individually)

This is really a quick Band-Aid fix.  You will need to do some deeper processes when you return home.  One might be to check in and see what it was that triggered this density of energy for you.  There will be something.  As I checked into what triggered me it was ‘Intimacy to Self’.  Which means that for a moment in time I was not listening, really listening to ME.  Once again I felt I could not walk away from the experience.  I tell you everytime I have felt I couldn’t discreetly leave – it has been a learning curve in the making.  More and more we are being called to check in BEFORE we embark on just about everything.

  • Is this food nourishing for me?
  • Is this event the right event for me?
  • Do I really need to do this course?
  • Does this add more to me?
  • Does this bring me joy?
  • Why do I think I need to do this course?
  • Does this person really know more than I do?
  • And importantly check in with how your energy vibration is travelling.  Is it balanced, centred in the heart – is there something that needs transformation?

What I am learning this year, is that it is time for ‘Inspired Action’ very firmly ensconced in this ‘New Energy of Creation’ energy.  More and more we are being encouraged to step out and right into our own power … mindful that we have all the answers within.  It is all about listening to the energy, transforming whatever is out of whack and returning to your heart-centre and taking inspired action.

Are you a Go-to-Expert?

I had an interesting conversation with someone around the subject of “Being seen as an Expert” and what constitutes an ‘expert’.  This person seemed put out that people responded to posts in the group … as though they were an expert.  It made me wonder   – what does this person believes an expert is?
How do we position ourselves as the “Come-to-Expert”.
        I believe that if a person has been studying a modality or speciality for several years and has an opinion – then that opinion has a value.  However, there is more. Not all ‘experts’ are as knowledgeable as they market themselves.  It is all relative to what they believe about themselves. Giving advice to someone on the thread, if the language is flavoured with ‘directness’ then it may come across as ‘know it all’. It is all in the way the response is languaged. For example: A response may be … ‘You might like to consider’, or Have you considered there might be another options’ etc. It is the difference between  ‘being supportive’ and ‘non-judgemental’ … and someone who is trying to get others to believe in their opinion.  In other words they have a strong attachment to getting others to take their side in the discussion.
        It is in the way that the posts are crafted

That creates either an energy of confrontation which can ultimately encourage others to disagree. Or the energy behind the words is one of non-confrontation and is presenting the information as  a ‘valued opinion’.  This is what sets apart one person attempting to assume the mantle of an expert and one who IS an expert in their field.

       It is a (inner thing) when a person is knowledgeable about their field of expertise, they have an inner confidence that comes across when they answer a post or write about that subject.

Continue reading Are you a Go-to-Expert?

Spirituality and Money – Are they a good mix?

Spirituality and Money – Are they a good mix?

Have we lost the Art of Having fun?  Pssss – Don’t tell anyone … but life and making money has become a serious business. It IS okay to put the fun, magic and money BACK into our lives … we can be spiritual and have fun making money!

In 2007 I asked a very specific question of the Universe.  “Am I on-track when I believe it is about being In-Grace and non-attached to money”. 

The answer I got was – “You are so far, far, far off track it is not funny!”  Continue reading Spirituality and Money – Are they a good mix?