When we are in Self Denial we sabottage our Dreams and Our Success in Business Is Self-Denial sabotaging your Success

When we are in self-denial, especially around our business goals we are playing small. We are living life in mid-range neutral. Getting up to speed and then idling back into neutral again. Does this ring a bell?

Over the years of doing this myself, I had convinced myself that I was not really good at business. I was more of a creative sort, the writer, the creator of programs etc. Any excuse to gloss over what I was really in denial about.

I live my life attuned to subtle clues around me. I like being in the flow and allowing inspiration to tap me on the shoulder and when the flow is interrupted or having down-time. I stop, identify what may be sabotaging me or my creativity and address that, using my own processes (cause I spend a lot of time creating lol)

Therefore yesterday when I was guided to go to one of my books, and use it like an oracle (holding the book in my hands and allowing it to guide me to a certain page) – which was Denial. I was a tad nonplussed. However, I have learnt to follow the trail. I began writing a blog around Denial, however the work I was referencing was longer than required, so I decided to break it into two sections. It was at the end of part 1 – that it grabbed me by the short and curly’s and I realised I needed to workshop this. I had woken feeling off-par and yet checking in with my feelings, emotions etc did not raise one issue.

It was not till I sat down and posed the question (on paper). That the suppressed emotions surfaced.

Q:   What is it  – that I am in denial of.

I then made a list of all the things I could be in denial about, but was not acknowledging yet.  I came up with 32 different options.

I then used my pendulum to go down and give me a NEC (Negative Emotional Charge) on each one.  1 – 10.  That highlighted the No. 1 priority issue.  In this case there were two.

Then I made a heading of those two issues. IE:  Success and attracting in the right business partner.   Now I have the ‘Living Brilliantly’ program to I went to that and intuitively selected the core Transformation Accelerator that was underpinning the denial around  success in business.  It came up ‘Unity/sabotage (not surprises there)  However, this did not tell me was the Root Cause, so back to the program.   It turned out to be – I was in denial of my ‘Infinite Wisdom’ that originated from a core wound around ‘Giving and Receiving’.  From that information I was able to do a deep healing.

Now if you don’t have you own copy of the ‘Living Brilliantly’ program then you will need to use what you have.  You can use a book of affirmations, oracle cards etc.  However, this may only provide you with surface information … and I am a great believer in getting to the absolute core of stuff and if it feels right for you then you might like to do a session with me.

Which ever way you choose to address this denial just do it – it is liberating when we release our core wounds that hold us captive and continue to sabotage our dreams, goals and in this case our business success.  Just find a way and do it today.


Has the concept of Wealth & Prosperity matched the Dream you had for yourself?

Did you implement the Law of Attraction teachings and find something was still missing – I did, so I set about to find out why even though I was putting the time, energy, money and ALL of myself into creating financial freedom and brilliant success – I was getting lacklustre results.

It took many years to finally understand the whole picture.  It is about vibration and if our vibration is inconsistent then we simply keep missing the mark … we have some success and then not so much.  I wanted to create a program that drilled down super fast to get to the core of any Money Blocks … and to be able to keep a consistent high vibration around money to achieve Brilliant Life Success.  Come Join us on the 5 – Day challenge.




About Jan-Marie Brooke

Jan-Marie is the author of seven books, the creator of the powerful ‘Freedom to BE’ program that releases emotional stress in (4) minutes and several mind-set changing courses. She writes about transforming your life with ease, so you can live brilliantly, doing what you love. She lives with her food-smooching cat at one of the most beautiful beaches on the Sunshine Coast of AU. www.livingbrilliantly.com.au Facebook: inspiredpublishing. Twitter: inspiredpub

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