Have you ever felt overwhelmed emotionally and didn’t have a clue what was really creating this feeling or how to transform it quickly.
When my marriage ended I was completely and utterly swamped with emotions. One letter in the mail telling me my marriage was over and it was not-negotiable, turned my world upside down. I was in shock, anger, grief all at the same time. Not only that, every person in my life walked out of my life at that point, I lost my business, my income, my home, friends and family all within a month. There was nothing left except my son and cat who hid in the laundry of our rented place, for 12 months. It was like I woke up on a distant galaxy alone and in shock. There were not enough counsellors or therapists who had enough appointments in the whole of the land to cope with what I was experiencing. I literally just wanted the earth to open up and swallow me, as I honestly thought I would never ever return from this level of devastation. Continue reading Emotional Overwhelm→
We all want to believe that love makes the world go around, yet in fact, whether we want it to be so or not – Money makes the world go around. Me I want the whole world to be loving and generously so. My heart and soul cries for love to be the highest denominator, the highest value 24/7, in our world …yet it is not so. Why? There is the trend to focus on making more money, or how to create more money, who will buy more products, what language will pull in more of the market share so people will buy more of ….
It is not my perspective and thankfully, there is now an emerging trend that is approaching business in a new more enlightened way … and it is gathering speed. Continue reading Money LOVES Me→
UnLeash the Vitality in Your BusinessHas your business world feel a bit lack lustre of late. It could be that you are lacking vitality and the quickest way to instil vitality back into your business is through the use of colour. That may sound a bit odd – it is not. Continue reading #Biz Tip 1- Put more Colour into your Business→
The hidden side of energy that people perceive about you and make a judgement about you … before you even open your mouth.
Have you ever met someone you felt was “prickly”? Well they were. Unresolved emotional issues/beliefs build up in the energy field preventing conscious communication. They build up like little sharp points in the energy field and when your own energy field comes in contact with them, you feel a jab, like a needle jabbed into the skin. You may feel a reaction and step back, or even speak sharply to the other person, because even if they have not opened their mouths, you have perceived that you have just been attacked. Continue reading Conscious Communication – How important is it?→
When we are in self-denial, especially around our business goals we are playing small. We are living life in mid-range neutral. Getting up to speed and then idling back into neutral again. Does this ring a bell?
Over the years of doing this myself, I had convinced myself that I was not really good at business. I was more of a creative sort, the writer, the creator of programs etc. Any excuse to gloss over what I was really in denial about. Continue reading Is Self Denial – Sabotaging your Success→
Sometimes our heads are just so full of stuff that it blocks the ability to think clearly, so what is the best option when you just have got no more space in your head for thought to have room to fire inspiration.
The first thing I do is stop, begin to breathe deeply and allow my shoulders to relax I then allow my energy to flow from the top of my head (crown chakra) and flow up to the Universal Mind/Infinite Source. I ‘still’ myself and allow myself to relax and let all those jumbled up thoughts of – I have to do this and I have to do that, to flow out and away. I then begin to sense a space in my thinking section of my brain and that is when clarity returns. Continue reading No Clarity? What to do when there is none→
The first thing that comes to mind is to believe in yourself. I had some interesting experiences early this year when I believed someone knew more than I already knew or would research and find out for myself. Marketing is not my passion. Some absolutely love it – me I would rather create, write, play – do absolutely anything before the serious business of marketing.
Are you ready to stop hiding behind the tree and come out and Shine?
Imagine waking up each morning and knowing that your energy was clear and high and you could put 100% into positive actions to create the most awesome experience in that day. Yet it is a rare person who can really achieve this; oh, they will tell you they do because they are faking it till they make it, and there is nothing wrong with that. It is better than hiding in bed, exhausted and in despair that life is hard and everything is a struggle. Except, it is time to get real and instead of faking it, actually living it with ease.
Are they really? A small child certainly doesn’t think this – their little personalities are not flavoured with failures/life-experience, so they are fresh, innocent and self confident. As we grow from childhood into adult every now and then something shifts from having a strong belief in Self to faltering with doubt raising its pesky head … then an even peskier little devil wants to join the party … the ‘Everyone is better than me … or everyone has so much more to offer than me’ rears up like a ancient serpent of the sea, crashing into where it is not wanted.
Living on Planet Earth comes with a complex set of rules, social implications and the need to have money to pay to live on our ‘spot’ on planet earth – and because we are human we come with a multitude of belief patterns, emotional reactions and dare I use the word ‘expectations’ of what we want to achieve, the lifestyle we want for ourselves. In my 28 years of specializing in transformational healing, many of my clients have complex sets of beliefs running their lives. Maybe back in the 60’s it was simple. Men went to work, the wife stayed home and looked after everyone. Pretty much 9 – 5 or 7.30 – 3.30 am working existence. There was less of everything so it was less stressful and it was easier to feel sane in our insanely busy world.