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Disappointment

‘Disappointment

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‘Freedom to Be’ program

All through life we have expectations, desires and dreams – is a part of who we are.  It is when those desires and dreams remain unfulfilled that we may experience disappointment. It may seem very innocuous, this disappointment, it is not – in fact it is deep and multilayered. The first time disappointment showed up for me I used this program to do a release; and I slept deeply for several hours, showing it was not a small issue. As we reach another holiday season, this disappointment can rise to the surface as a person looks around and realises that the ‘dream business goal’ – ‘dream relationship’ has not materialised …  and without warning sadness pops its head up.

We turn a look inward and wonder why. It does not take a lot for this to be triggered, it might be a Christmas card from someone telling you how fantastic their life has been, it might be there is not many family members to celebrate with.  It might be a chance remark of someone, even a post on social media.  It is often the most insignificant moments that trigger a feeling of sadness, yet it is more than likely a feeling of disappointment.

Layers of Disappointment

Looking under the layers of disappointment I have found regret; anger; extreme anger; intense anger; indescribable grief; emptiness; despair. ‘Why is this happening?’ ‘Why is this not working out for me?’ or ‘Why has everyone else got what I want?!’ In a nutshell – ENVY! And so it becomes clearer that although disappointment may seem a mild emotion, it has attached to it, some very deep emotions, and the root being envy.

There are many areas in life where there can be feelings of disappointment, in relationships and career in particular. Even body image may be a huge disappointment as the media paints such a different picture than is reality.  It is normal to feel disappointment. It is, however, helpful to understand that it is only the tip of the iceberg. Provided we seek to understand what motivates these feelings of disappointment, it is possible to use disappointment to our advantage.

When a person pays scant heed to this significant signpost, they are denying a powerful opportunity to heal deeper issues, which left unresolved, may present as a strong life challenge, usually at an inconvenient time. If there are no feelings of joy, it can be due to a strong expectation that doesn’t deliver. Disappointment is linked to egoistical will, which comes from a belief that everything should go our way. When it does not, it often triggers anger and frustration which is often directed towards another person.

Regret

Regret is closely related to disappointment and loss. It is the result of not letting go of disappointments in life. It is the feeling/belief that there will not be the same opportunity again. However, if disappointment is acknowledged and transmuted then regret does not manifest. Which then allows the space for more love, abundance and joy to flow forth into your life.

When a person feels disappointed, they may not recognise the strength of that feeling. When the emotion under the disappointment is released it is possible to regain a sense of joy, feel lighter and able to move forward, experiencing enchantment. Life is inter-connected via energy vibrations. Sadness and disappointment downgrade the vibration of attraction – therefore to experience a feeling of fulfilment and joy it is important to nip this feeling of sadness and disappointment as quickly as possible.

Freedom to BE program

The Release technique of this program will do that in four minutes. Emotion is energy in motion, if disappointment and sadness is up – then it is in-process of transmutation, provided you release it.  Ignore it and allow it to resettle and it will come up at another time to be healed.  My motto is – much better out and healed than ignored and shoved down.

Transforming Disappointment into Enchantment

… A child views life through the eyes of enchantment, joy and wonder and unfortunately as we grow older, people and painful events can shatter this joy and innocence. Disenchantment and disappointment seeps in without our conscious awareness until it has accumulated to a point that it gets our attention. To ‘consciously’ view life through lens of enchantment and joy laced with gratitude is the key to changing the vibration that surrounds you.

Drawing this Transformation Accelerator means you are ready to move on with your life, letting go of the disappointments and regrets. Life is a journey; not everything we take on will come to fruition, nor will every relationship we enter into be long lasting. What is important is … what did you learn from the relationship? Did you grow, did you have fun?

When we release the grief of the disappointments we can look back and recognise the positive qualities of the experience and realise how much we have grown from the experience. Let go and pat yourself on the back for the growth experience it was and find those things that you can be grateful for. Life through the lens of enchantment is brighter, more fun and is expansive and when we feel expansive it is because our hearts are open to receive. It is all about vibration – when we feel happy on the inside … our world reconfigures and smiles back at us.

This definition of the Transformation Accelerator is from the ‘Freedom to BE’ program which releases emotional stress in (4) minutes.  You will find more information on http://brilliantlifesuccess.com/freedom-to-be.  Or if you would like a one-on-one session with Jan-Marie – just message me.

Discipline is it your Friend?

Discipline is it your Friend?

sunI have a confession to make – in my program ‘Freedom to BE’ which has about 200 Transformation Accelerators each time I pulled the one that said the issue was Discipline – I wanted to walk away and ignore it (well mostly I did).  You see it annoyed me to think  that my lack of marketing success was about discipline.  I really wanted it to be something different, because for me the word discipline had all the hallmarks of control.  Putting me into a box and I wanted to be free-flowing.  Most of all I wanted to be free to do what I wanted when I wanted.  Except my Higher Intelligence kept shoving this Transformation Accelerator in my face trying to get my attention, like some pesky annoying fly. Continue reading Discipline is it your Friend?

Heart ‘n Soul Entrepreneurs #2

Heart ‘n Soul Entrepreneur #2

Healing the Heart of Your Business

It would seem my latest blog has caused some interesting comments.  The one below  caught my eye –

 … Your latest blog is so on track!  It’s become an industry full of false hope and pocket lining designed to lure in souls of lower vibration who are non actualised in consciousness. I’ve seen this breed in action and surprise, surprise!! Their mind is always on the go, they multitask all day long, lack quality rest and sleep because they are working on the next business plan or mocking up a new course to promote!! One particular person I know even forgets to pay for the meal they eat when dining out because their mind is racing to the next venture, next location meeting or free consultation to win a sale! I’m not suggesting that there aren’t genuine healers out there because there are … But surely they are few and probably charge reasonably….

Above all else Heart ‘n Soul entrepreneurs need to be integrity.  It is an expectation that if someone is claiming to come from their heart then they are in integrity and can be trusted.  For this section of the community, (especially in business) it is important that this category needs to be even more vigilant about integrity because it affects the whole. Continue reading Heart ‘n Soul Entrepreneurs #2

Money LOVES Me

Money LOVES Me … Yummy, Yummy Money

Money LOVES Me in Business

We all want to believe that love makes the world go around, yet in fact, whether we want it to be so or not – Money makes the world go around.  Me I want the whole world to be loving and generously so.  My heart and soul cries for love to be the highest denominator, the highest value 24/7, in our world …yet it is not so.  Why?  There is the trend to focus on making more money, or how to create more money, who will buy more products, what language will pull in more of the market share so people will buy more of ….

It is not my perspective and thankfully, there is now an emerging trend that is approaching business in a new more enlightened way … and it is gathering speed. Continue reading Money LOVES Me

Due Diligence in Business and Relationships

Due Diligence in Business and Relationships
 Due Diligence in Business and Relationships

Due Diligence in Relationships

When two people meet for the first time – there is a lot of sizing up.  Will I like this person, is this person someone I could fall in love with.  Or will we become good friends.  Alternatively in a business sense, can we do business together in a way that is in alignment with my values.

Often when there is chemistry between two people on that first meet, it is often interpreted to mean that this person is Mr or Mrs RIGHT! The fresh bloom of love is such an exciting time and we can get hooked straight up.

However it is actually a warning bell going off! Continue reading Due Diligence in Business and Relationships

Manipulation & Control in Business

Manipulation & Control in Business.

Business Success Healing - Manipulation & Control

Is being genuinely supported, a challenge … especially in business. Does support come with a hidden agenda. If I do this for you then I ‘expect’ you to do that for me. Alternatively, if I give you ‘my time’ in any form – then I expect you will buy from me. In business the current flavour is to do free strategy sessions, however the agenda (most times) is to sell you into a high priced coaching programs – or some other form of high priced products. High prices does not always equal quality products. Continue reading Manipulation & Control in Business

Is Self Denial – Sabotaging your Success

When we are in Self Denial we sabottage our Dreams and Our Success in Business Is Self-Denial sabotaging your Success

When we are in self-denial, especially around our business goals we are playing small. We are living life in mid-range neutral. Getting up to speed and then idling back into neutral again. Does this ring a bell?

Over the years of doing this myself, I had convinced myself that I was not really good at business. I was more of a creative sort, the writer, the creator of programs etc. Any excuse to gloss over what I was really in denial about. Continue reading Is Self Denial – Sabotaging your Success

No Clarity? What to do when there is none

 No Clarity? What to do when there is none.

No Clarity: Simplify, Identify, Transform and Live Brilliantly
No Clarity: Simplify, Identify, Transform and Live Brilliantly

Sometimes our heads are just so full of stuff that it blocks the ability to think clearly, so what is the best option when you just have got no more space in your head for thought to have room to fire inspiration.

The first thing I do is stop, begin to breathe deeply and allow my shoulders to relax I then allow my energy to flow from the top of my head (crown chakra) and flow up to the Universal Mind/Infinite Source.   I ‘still’ myself and allow myself to relax and let all those jumbled up thoughts  of  –  I have to do this and I have to do that, to flow out and away.  I then begin to sense a space in my thinking section of my brain  and that is when clarity returns. Continue reading No Clarity? What to do when there is none

How to be the STAR in your Marketing

BE the Star in your Marketing
BE Outrageously YOU - Be the star in your story
BE outrageously YOU and BE the Star in your Marketing. It is ALL about YOU and the Vibration you send out to the world
How to BE the Star.

The first thing that comes to mind is to believe in yourself.  I had some interesting experiences early this year when I believed someone knew more than I already knew or would research and find out for myself.  Marketing is not my passion.  Some absolutely love it – me I would rather create, write, play – do absolutely anything before the serious business of marketing.

Continue reading How to be the STAR in your Marketing

Control – Do you feel controlled

Control – Do you feel Controlled

Most people don’t like being controlled … and yet some don’t realise how controlling they are themselves.  As I have been participating in this #30-Day Blogging challenge it has in many ways made me more observant.  It might be that I have been invited into a number of new groups on FB.  And this is where I find it interesting. Continue reading Control – Do you feel controlled