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Heart ‘n Soul Entrepreneurs #2

Heart ‘n Soul Entrepreneur #2

Healing the Heart of Your Business

It would seem my latest blog has caused some interesting comments.  The one below  caught my eye –

 … Your latest blog is so on track!  It’s become an industry full of false hope and pocket lining designed to lure in souls of lower vibration who are non actualised in consciousness. I’ve seen this breed in action and surprise, surprise!! Their mind is always on the go, they multitask all day long, lack quality rest and sleep because they are working on the next business plan or mocking up a new course to promote!! One particular person I know even forgets to pay for the meal they eat when dining out because their mind is racing to the next venture, next location meeting or free consultation to win a sale! I’m not suggesting that there aren’t genuine healers out there because there are … But surely they are few and probably charge reasonably….

Above all else Heart ‘n Soul entrepreneurs need to be integrity.  It is an expectation that if someone is claiming to come from their heart then they are in integrity and can be trusted.  For this section of the community, (especially in business) it is important that this category needs to be even more vigilant about integrity because it affects the whole. Continue reading Heart ‘n Soul Entrepreneurs #2

Manipulation & Control in Business

Manipulation & Control in Business.

Business Success Healing - Manipulation & Control

Is being genuinely supported, a challenge … especially in business. Does support come with a hidden agenda. If I do this for you then I ‘expect’ you to do that for me. Alternatively, if I give you ‘my time’ in any form – then I expect you will buy from me. In business the current flavour is to do free strategy sessions, however the agenda (most times) is to sell you into a high priced coaching programs – or some other form of high priced products. High prices does not always equal quality products. Continue reading Manipulation & Control in Business

Everyone is Better than Me

‘Everyone is Better than Me’

Are they really?  A small child certainly doesn’t think this – their little personalities are not flavoured with failures/life-experience, so they are fresh, innocent and self confident.  As we grow from childhood into adult every now and then something shifts from having a strong belief in Self to faltering with doubt raising its pesky head … then an even peskier little devil wants to join the party … the ‘Everyone is better than me … or everyone has so much more to offer than me’ rears up like a ancient serpent of the sea, crashing into where it is not wanted.

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Keeping Sane and on Track

 Keeping Sane and On-Track

Living on Planet Earth comes with a complex set of rules, social implications and the need to have money to pay to live on our ‘spot’ on planet earth – and because we are human we come with a multitude of belief patterns, emotional reactions and dare I use the word ‘expectations’ of what we want to achieve, the lifestyle we want for ourselves. In my 28 years of specializing in transformational healing, many of my clients have complex sets of beliefs running their lives.  Maybe back in the 60’s it was simple.  Men went to work, the wife stayed home and looked after everyone.  Pretty much 9 – 5 or 7.30 – 3.30 am working existence.  There was less of everything so it was less stressful and it was easier to feel sane in our insanely busy world.

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Transformation – do you fear it?

Transformation – Do you Fear it?

Healed Heart versus Crisis

Heart resized

I began my journey of Transformation Healing around the same time I became interested in energy.  The two kinda went hand in hand due to the fact no-one puts a warning label on the practice of meditation and opening oneself to the Light.

In 1987 I attended an Esoteric Mystery School to learn about energy.  What appeared to be an exciting and riveting experience turned to be a life-changing event.  My 18 year marriage ended with a letter in the mail telling me it was over and it was not-negotiable.  No warning, just gone.

When faced with a huge life challenge, the only way is to move through it, and come out the other side (without leaving the planet) which can be a constant companion when deep, enormous truckloads of emotions hit the fan at the same time.   For me – I was alone, every single person in my life, both sides of the family walked away.  My son and I and the cat who hid in the laundry for 12 months, had to start from scratch.

The intensity of a life-challenge that hits from left field like this, comes because we were never taught to transform (what we were feeling) throughout our lives.  I certainly did not have any role models.  I had a father who was emotionally introverted and hit out in an abusive way to lift the intensity of what he felt.  My mother died when I was very young, so I didn’t know about nurture of self.  It was a perfect scenario for an emotionally needy person (me) to be pushed into finding out how to transform those intense feelings.  It was to lead me on an amazing journey … creating an intense need to support others going through the same experience.  What I found, was apparently it takes courage to face self – stripped to the core, bleeding, raw and vulnerable.  For me I had no choice, I either died or I dealt with it.  As everyone had gone … there was only me and my ‘Unseen’ teachers, healers and support crew who lovingly, gently wrapped their huge big arms/wings around me and held me tight.

It was ‘interesting’, and the sad part is – it doesn’t need to be this hard.  We make it hard cause we are afraid to open Pandora’s box for fear we will not survive.  Can you image what our emotional storage lockup looks like – years of suppressed crap?  Well think about a house that nothing, absolutely nothing is ever cleared, thrown out.  You know the ones, the hoarders of anything and everything.  Could you live in that house?  Probably not, very few could and yet this is what your Emotional Storage Lockup looks like if you never transform what feelings you have, what reactions, mindsets and behaviours that play out.  Or if you spend a lot of your time and energy projecting  outside of self.  And most people’s favourite – rushing here and there, spending, travelling, socializing, working their fingers to the bone – all in an attempt to run from what they may be feeling – well the ESL is huge 🙂 and don’t be fooled into thinking that no-one knows what you are suppressing – they do as I found out 🙂 reacting in some often very hurtful ways.

We are human and we are emotionally based – it is not rational to think that these emotions do not exist.  We honestly cannot live in the positive all of the time.  Life is light and dark, it is positive and it is negative, it is who we are as humans.  You cannot change emotional energy by thinking about it, you cannot change mindsets just with your mind – it requires an integration of energy for the transformation to complete itself.

What I found was that as I transformed my emotional energy so too did it change my mindsets and my behaviours which is why I am so passionate about people getting this.  Change the emotional energy and you change your life with EASE.  It doesn’t have to be hard or scary.  Mastering our emotional health is simply the same as attending to your physical health or brushing your teeth every morning and night.  The more you integrate into your daily routine the transformation of what you are feeling, reacting to – the more life flows with ease, the more your energy vibration increases and begins to MATCH that which you desire to create/manifest in life.

There is no fast-track way … it is a constant integration of living brilliantly via transformation of your emotional energy.  Learn to LOVE transformation it is you key to freedom.  It heals your heart at deep levels, it opens up doorways of opportunity with ease and grace.  It changes the struggle, the lack of joy, the lack of …. in simple and profound ways.  It is a way of life if you want to live brilliantly.

Everything is Energy

Everything is Energy

As I said in a previous post I have been studying energy and its impact on our lives  for about 28 years.  In fact it fascinated me, it challenged me, it pushed me to grow, to heal and to understand even deeper layers of what energy was and the profound impact it has on every aspect of our lives.

Recently I have had a few people ask when was I going to teach what I know – this made me pause and think, what exactly would I teach.  I have specialized in emotional healing for about 25 years and to be honest I found quite a resistance from people … so many thought they knew everything … so many ran from feeling the deeper stuff and so it went on.  When I took the Living Brilliantly program to the US people were so busy telling me that they were so stressed … yet they were running out the door calling back.  I gotta go, I have so much to do, I have money to make OMG I am so stressed and overwhelmed by it all.  Dah, that is exactly what the Living Brilliantly program does, it releases emotional stress (which is energy) and brings you back to the present with both the left and right brain balanced so you are consciously aware, centred and balanced.

However, this post is about energy … everything is energy!  Which means if you really understand energy your master your success.  Yes I have said that before, however I am not entirely convinced that people really do understand the full impact of energy.

Our thoughts are energy, our emotions are energy, our communication is energy, money is energy – everything is energy.  Our relationships, and our businesses are hugely impacted by energy.  Rooms hold energy for about six months.  This means that if you have a teenage child, sitting in their room with thoughts of fighting with the world in general – all those thoughts/energy are in that room.  You can walk in feeling awesome and within seconds feel like crap.  Restaurants, workshop venues the list goes on.  Unless they are cleared regularly they have a whole truckload of little surprises waiting to wrap their arms around you 🙂

Therefore was is your relationship to energy?  Do you consider you know all about energy? Or do you think you do?  Does that sound arrogant of me to ask that question.  Maybe you think it is.  However, I have been researching this for over 28 years and I still walk into situations that blow me away and not in a good way.  This stuff ‘energy’ either makes the day or not.  I spend a lot of time in my own company, I am happy there, working away creating etc.  In many ways I am an introvert and yet I am an extrovert when out in company.  In my own space I am in my own energy … when I am out … I am exposed to everyone’s energy.  I therefore choose where and with whom I associate with.

That is until I forget and wander off down a pathway of a business luncheon or network meeting and find a whole different experience.  Over the years I have become adapt at adjusting so I am not flattened.  However, what I have found interesting of late is how much the energy has changed. Last year was challenging as I was subjected to a Vibrational roller than negatively impacted me on all levels, however by the end of the year I was more adjusted to this vibration.  Then this year it started again and I felt it intensely again.  Last year I attended network meetings and handled the energy quite well.  2015 was a huge energy shift, amazing vibrant energy and it changed energy on so many levels.

We are back in kindergarten energy wise with this profound shift in energy.  Why?  We have not yet stabilised our ability to hold this new energy which means when in our own company we can stabilize it … when surrounded by a whole range of energy vibrations not so much (yet).

When I go to a network meeting I am constantly in awe that so many people now are working in mindset change, transformational healing however, what I also observe  is that there is still a lack of understanding of how  the energy of their communication is impacting the room.  If a person is asking participants in a workshop, to do exercises in checking in with what they feel about money, their relationships, business etc – then the energy in the room is going to change.  Suddenly there is all this emotional energy floating around and unless the facilitator is educated about energy to see this … AND transforms the emotional energy in the room, immediately, then the energy begins to downgrade its vibrancy.

You can go into the room feeling awesome and come of the room feeling like crap and flattened.  Then spend the next three days bringing your energy vibration back up to what you normally operate with.

You are going to see and experience this more and more.  The more people awaken and go forth with their version of healing, energy etc then you will find this experience of these denser energies subtly creeping up on you and it begins with a headache, a stiff neck, a feeling of heaviness.  So what do you do?  Well if you can’t leave then you need to clear your own energy field as quickly as possible.  How I do that is create a vortex of energy from the base of my feet and quickly spiral it back up my body over my head and up to the Heart and Mind of the Universal Mind/God.  Then cocoon my energy in different colours and seal it.  You might like to do a Access Conscious release, or discreetly TAP or whatever process you have to clear what has come to the surface within you (from the combined energy in the room and individually)

This is really a quick Band-Aid fix.  You will need to do some deeper processes when you return home.  One might be to check in and see what it was that triggered this density of energy for you.  There will be something.  As I checked into what triggered me it was ‘Intimacy to Self’.  Which means that for a moment in time I was not listening, really listening to ME.  Once again I felt I could not walk away from the experience.  I tell you everytime I have felt I couldn’t discreetly leave – it has been a learning curve in the making.  More and more we are being called to check in BEFORE we embark on just about everything.

  • Is this food nourishing for me?
  • Is this event the right event for me?
  • Do I really need to do this course?
  • Does this add more to me?
  • Does this bring me joy?
  • Why do I think I need to do this course?
  • Does this person really know more than I do?
  • And importantly check in with how your energy vibration is travelling.  Is it balanced, centred in the heart – is there something that needs transformation?

What I am learning this year, is that it is time for ‘Inspired Action’ very firmly ensconced in this ‘New Energy of Creation’ energy.  More and more we are being encouraged to step out and right into our own power … mindful that we have all the answers within.  It is all about listening to the energy, transforming whatever is out of whack and returning to your heart-centre and taking inspired action.

Are you a Go-to-Expert?

I had an interesting conversation with someone around the subject of “Being seen as an Expert” and what constitutes an ‘expert’.  This person seemed put out that people responded to posts in the group … as though they were an expert.  It made me wonder   – what does this person believes an expert is?
How do we position ourselves as the “Come-to-Expert”.
        I believe that if a person has been studying a modality or speciality for several years and has an opinion – then that opinion has a value.  However, there is more. Not all ‘experts’ are as knowledgeable as they market themselves.  It is all relative to what they believe about themselves. Giving advice to someone on the thread, if the language is flavoured with ‘directness’ then it may come across as ‘know it all’. It is all in the way the response is languaged. For example: A response may be … ‘You might like to consider’, or Have you considered there might be another options’ etc. It is the difference between  ‘being supportive’ and ‘non-judgemental’ … and someone who is trying to get others to believe in their opinion.  In other words they have a strong attachment to getting others to take their side in the discussion.
        It is in the way that the posts are crafted

That creates either an energy of confrontation which can ultimately encourage others to disagree. Or the energy behind the words is one of non-confrontation and is presenting the information as  a ‘valued opinion’.  This is what sets apart one person attempting to assume the mantle of an expert and one who IS an expert in their field.

       It is a (inner thing) when a person is knowledgeable about their field of expertise, they have an inner confidence that comes across when they answer a post or write about that subject.

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